This is an occasion to write about her as we are moving rapidly towards Ultramodern culture, a high tech lifestyle, Concepts of life getting wider (in reality life is getting a narrow and self centered) we claim that we promote equality we are having so called women empowerment cells and ministries worldwide, we have schemes to make her feel empowered and liberated, for that matter we have a complete package for her so that she should come out and vote for us. We are so mean if something good happened to her we take the credit and if she is in trouble it is her fault. In fact Most of the things which exists alive are aware about the power she has. From ancient times she has proven her greatness and strength whenever required by humanity, for which giving example is injustice. Even though she is at a stage where she controls many, Most of us feel proud and dignity in controlling her. We are afraid of being controlled by her in any form. I feel sorry because this is how we are celebrating a day in a year for Her.
The reason I felt to write an article dedicated to her is I know that is how I can assure her that still there are men who not only respects, cares for her but also promise her the protection. In my one years tenure in a pharmaceutical company offering a wide range of medicines for all needs of a woman, one thing kept provoking me and made me furious was the Doctors and family members who enforced her to undergo sex determination test when she became pregnant. To my surprise most of the other side were women as family members and few lady doctors who supported this illegal and pervert act and equally contributed by authorities who conveniently made abortion drugs and treatments available very easily to Kill the girl fetus in womb. Is that an act by illiterates or poor? more surprising was highly qualified couples who paid loads of money to get this crime done. This is how we celebrate the Women's Day.
We talk about the modest urban society which has a special platform equipped with many opportunities for her to become self dependent. Special provisions for her to get good jobs. But Deliberately we ignore the struggle she still has to do to get her basic rights if she is alone. We do round table discussions and debates but do we take one small step in reality towards a safe and better living environment for her? This question of mine got answered when I traveled every day in public transport across almost all metros and non metros. The crowd where she is supposed to feel safe she is not safe she is not even treated with little respect. She is just a matter of fun for many of the crowd. She is victim whole day in front of the same eyes which claims she is safe. This is how we wish her Happy Women's Day
But My friends I feel confident that she can come out of toughest of situation without this weak support we just claim. I am convinced of Her power when she alone can climb Mount Everest, She can fly over universe She win against all odds. She Inspires me when she wash the Dishes in party and when get some food she keep it in her bag and carry it all the way to home just to feed her children and drunkard husband. She Inspires me when she takes an opportunity to be a porter and carries heavy luggage just like any other man when her father is bed ridden. She inspires me when she takes a task to teach moral to criminals and makes them human. Undoubtedly her spirit of living inspires me and makes me what I am and without her bearing pain for whole 9 months I am aware I could not see the beauty in this world. I have understood What she is and What she can give the world. The Question is When all of us will realize?
Wishing her a HAPPY WOMEN'S Day Without Understanding Her is Useless and injustice. And to understand no extra efforts time or cost is required. So Be proud of yourself if you are a woman and try to respect women if you are a real man this is all I wish to convey.
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The reason I felt to write an article dedicated to her is I know that is how I can assure her that still there are men who not only respects, cares for her but also promise her the protection. In my one years tenure in a pharmaceutical company offering a wide range of medicines for all needs of a woman, one thing kept provoking me and made me furious was the Doctors and family members who enforced her to undergo sex determination test when she became pregnant. To my surprise most of the other side were women as family members and few lady doctors who supported this illegal and pervert act and equally contributed by authorities who conveniently made abortion drugs and treatments available very easily to Kill the girl fetus in womb. Is that an act by illiterates or poor? more surprising was highly qualified couples who paid loads of money to get this crime done. This is how we celebrate the Women's Day.
We talk about the modest urban society which has a special platform equipped with many opportunities for her to become self dependent. Special provisions for her to get good jobs. But Deliberately we ignore the struggle she still has to do to get her basic rights if she is alone. We do round table discussions and debates but do we take one small step in reality towards a safe and better living environment for her? This question of mine got answered when I traveled every day in public transport across almost all metros and non metros. The crowd where she is supposed to feel safe she is not safe she is not even treated with little respect. She is just a matter of fun for many of the crowd. She is victim whole day in front of the same eyes which claims she is safe. This is how we wish her Happy Women's Day
But My friends I feel confident that she can come out of toughest of situation without this weak support we just claim. I am convinced of Her power when she alone can climb Mount Everest, She can fly over universe She win against all odds. She Inspires me when she wash the Dishes in party and when get some food she keep it in her bag and carry it all the way to home just to feed her children and drunkard husband. She Inspires me when she takes an opportunity to be a porter and carries heavy luggage just like any other man when her father is bed ridden. She inspires me when she takes a task to teach moral to criminals and makes them human. Undoubtedly her spirit of living inspires me and makes me what I am and without her bearing pain for whole 9 months I am aware I could not see the beauty in this world. I have understood What she is and What she can give the world. The Question is When all of us will realize?
Wishing her a HAPPY WOMEN'S Day Without Understanding Her is Useless and injustice. And to understand no extra efforts time or cost is required. So Be proud of yourself if you are a woman and try to respect women if you are a real man this is all I wish to convey.
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'Arise ! Awake ! and stop not until the goal is reached.' quoted the great Indian Monk, 'Swami Vivekananda'. Whenever I listen this quote I feel an urgency to once again check on my current location on the path of my dream, which I can bring into reality by achieving the GOALS I have set for myself. Yes, every single time I am infused with lot of positive energy just by hearing, reading or writing this quote.
'Jab jago tab savera hai'. So when we wake up to a reality, it is time for us to (re)act. This is similar to the popular English phrase - 'Better late than never'. Once the beam of realization strikes us, are we always in the nick of time to react? As part of the advocacy campaign focusing on anaemia reduction, Sukarya with an expert team from “Ved Films Television News and Documentary Film Producer” sh. Let go of the past! Have you heard that saying in Hindi – jab jago tab savera! When you wake up, it’s morning. Sounds silly in English but hopefully it conveyed the meaning.
Since the beginning of this new venture into Corporate and Professional skills training which I Co-Founded in Amravati, I have came across very strange but true incidences which shaken my belief and faith in current up-bringing and education of more than half of young students in colleges and University of Amravati. It's very obvious to feel strange into something right after one leaves their job from a metro like Ahmedabad and comes back to a place like Amravati, because of changes in life style and habits of people around them! Though, the strange feeling which I came across was not one of which I have just mentioned. The real reason behind my concern is the lack of Vision and Goals in the minds of students who are looked upon as future of our country. My experiences while interacting with most of the students made me think so. Whenever I meet someone in my office who is a job seeker and I try to ask him about his aspirations or his favorite areas of work or career most often I get back is a Silence, a pin drop silence. I mean after completion of the graduation or P.G. or some times even more than that, If a student is still trying to find out (actually neither trying to find nor bothered about) his Abilities, Competencies or Interest in the life then something is extremely wrong. Something is wrong in his life which he or someone around him is not aware about. Something is wrong in his life which very few people understand but can not convince him about the fact. Someone knows exactly what is wrong in his life but he is reluctant to listen it from that some one because that some one in his life is experienced but not so cool according to him. We must find out what is wrong in the scenario because if we don't find whats wrong here then it can be Worst in future.
Recently I met a guy around 26 years old, who came to my office to get a job. The reason behind searching a job was neither his ability or knowledge nor his interest in any sector. He wanted to earn only to fund his tuition class for Public service commission exam. I asked him what type of work he can do to which he was unaware, I asked him about his family financial condition which I got to know was poor with no back up. So I decided to help him out by offering a job with field work involved in it. The moment he heard about field work he denied to work, which is a normal scenario now a days. No student want to do field work as if it is crime however I felt i should help this guy and I thought to check his knowledge level so that I could offer him another job. I was startled to hear him saying that the president of India passed away! I thought he must be confused so I corrected him telling the fact that he was our former president but he laughed at me and told me that no sir he was the current president of India. If this is the level of Current affairs knowledge a graduation student possesses then we must check the level of Education being provided to the students. I have no more doubt about mediocrity in the society because with such level of knowledge we deserve such scenario in our country.
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Recently I met a guy around 26 years old, who came to my office to get a job. The reason behind searching a job was neither his ability or knowledge nor his interest in any sector. He wanted to earn only to fund his tuition class for Public service commission exam. I asked him what type of work he can do to which he was unaware, I asked him about his family financial condition which I got to know was poor with no back up. So I decided to help him out by offering a job with field work involved in it. The moment he heard about field work he denied to work, which is a normal scenario now a days. No student want to do field work as if it is crime however I felt i should help this guy and I thought to check his knowledge level so that I could offer him another job. I was startled to hear him saying that the president of India passed away! I thought he must be confused so I corrected him telling the fact that he was our former president but he laughed at me and told me that no sir he was the current president of India. If this is the level of Current affairs knowledge a graduation student possesses then we must check the level of Education being provided to the students. I have no more doubt about mediocrity in the society because with such level of knowledge we deserve such scenario in our country.
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Jab Jago Tab Savera In English